I am a young (51 is young, right?) widow in Upstate New York. Our darling daughter is married and living in Virginia so my "babies" are now Ray (7 yr old male) and Dora (10 mo old female) and they keep me endlessly entertained!I am a young (51 is young, right?) widow in Upstate New York. Our darling daughter is married and living in Virginia so my "babies" are now Ray (7 yr old male) and Dora (10 mo old female) and they keep me endlessly entertained!